Self esteem lessons are associated with those people that are low on self esteem. These lessons can improve the life these people and also their way of living. But we also must consider that self esteem is not only connected with adults but it is also associated with the young children. Giving them lessons of self esteem is an important part of inculcating values in them.

Children also need to feel the sense of self esteem, just like the adults do. Without self esteem they will find it very hard to make certain important decisions and also will find it quite hard to study. Low self esteem in children may make them do the wrong things and then try to improve them. Therefore in order to make you children develop a healthy self esteem and help them succeed in life, you must try to inculcate self esteem in them right from the beginning. Remember, giving self esteem lessons to your young one may prove as hard as it can be.00

You must always make your children feel that they can learn new things with every failure and try to erase the word failure from their minds. With every failure there are only lessons to learn. Don’t let your children feel that they are failures and make them feel that there is no such thing as failure. Teach them to set their goals correctly and also teach them how to strive hard to achieve them. Teach them that only after achieving the goals that they have set for themselves then only they can be successful. Only this way you will be able to make your children to grow up feeling good about themselves and give them a positive outlook in to themselves.

Whenever your child fails to do something, encourage him or her to do it again and again till there is success by working together as needed. Work with your children and only then you can teach them how to taste success. You must have a family night once a week to play games and teach them to communicate by asking them what they will do on the family night. Make them feel that their words are as important to the whole family. You must give them the right responsibilities.

Teach them how to keep their room, things and their surroundings clean. Make them feel welcome. Make them feel special. You must make them feel happy. In case of adults you may do the same things but must consider that they are adults not kids. These lessons will make a person feel better and happy.

By: Muna wa Wanjiru

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